Most of us, always face rejection, insults, comments... on ours looks, cloths style, hair style, socialization with others...
Well frankly telling, I don't really care about those, I don't keep them in mind most of the time. I stand by one principle- don't care about what others say about you, it depends on you because God never look at your outer appearance but only looks into your heart.
God shape us with each our own character, personality, talents, and flaws. So each and everyone of us are different. There are no two people with the same character, personality, talents, and flaws. Each of us are uniquely and created. Don't look at others and be jealous of others that has something better, because you yourself also have something better then others.
Try to comment less on other people's style, hair cut, dressing...., because they are not you and you can't make them become who you want them to be, that is for God to determine, not you.
Don't always look at singers, actors, actresses, celebrity and try to mimic their hair cut, clothing, appearance...
I know most people just want to be like them, mimicking and following everything they put on but why? They are themselves, you can't be them, you are yourself that God shaped you to be. Even the styles, they might not fit you like it fits them.
Be happy of what you have, there might be somethings or talents that you have and they don't.
Don't think life is ever going to be perfect when you can follow their styles, even their life is not perfect after having all the money and things they wanted. In the outer appearance they might seem to be happy and well, but maybe in their hearts and mind they are troubled by many things.
Well, life is never simple, its hard to avoid all these but I believe by God's grace, He will help me to live it through with purpose and meaning.
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